Horoscopes from Planet Waves by Eric Francis: Cancer - Leo - Virgo

Cancer (June 21-July 22)
This week's Full Moon may still have you feeling like you just got off an entire afternoon on the teacup ride. Clearly, you've taken a few steps to renegotiate some of the more sensitive situations in your life, yet you likely figured out how much more you have to change. One particular situation where push came to shove contains a lot of good information for you, and I suggest you do some data mining and make the most of what you learn. There is something fundamental you can discern about your own nature and that of someone close to you. We may be talking about your relationship to a group. The truly important thing to focus on is how to make sure that your values, opinions and sense of presence do not take second place, or get swallowed by, some entity seemingly larger than yourself. Yet the way to distinguish yourself is not with how 'different' you are, but with the power and beauty of your gradually awakening sense of self-worth.

Leo (July 22-Aug. 23)
Your relationships are in a delicate spot, and you can help yourself immensely by being the person who defuses any tension and lets any seeming insult roll off your back. This may not be easy, because you're almost as edgy as certain people around you -- almost but not exactly. This is all going to come down to communication, which means being a specialist in understanding everyone's motives: certain individuals around you, certain dynamics as they manifest in a group, and of course keeping a pulse on your own inner currents. Here is the thing to remember -- life is more flexible than you remember it being any time in the recent past. Opinions are subject to change, facts are subject to reinterpretation and any situation you may encounter has many negotiable points. What will make that flexibility available is creativity: that is, imagination, seeing the possibilities, and knowing that any problem has a solution waiting to be discovered or invented.

Virgo (Aug. 23-Sep. 22)
You would be wise to pull your punches over the next few days -- that is to say, meet aggression with something other than aggression. This won't be easy but it's definitely possible. If something makes you angry, start by shifting perspectives and figure out where someone is coming from. Merely empathizing with them will have a healing effect from the outset of the discussion or encounter. You will then be less inclined to think or act in a way that is self-judgmental -- which is one of the best ways to defuse tense situations. You are the one who is dealing with the inner-violence dynamic. The person you're connecting with is working through a mix of an identity crisis and self-deception. Therefore, be honest with yourself, listen with care, and set the example that there's another way of looking at the world. Once you actually observe and acknowledge that, the whole relationship will shift.